I can be quiet around you if I don’t really know how to approach you, or I just don’t like you.. I’m very outspoken and I’m gonna tell you my opinion whether you like it or not…

Stephanie once told someone that she hated going places with me because if something was wrong with something I was gonna tell the person about it… she’s not wrong 😂. If your food is wrong I got you, girl! Or you ordered something and it’s the wrong color, don’t be shy, I got you sis! 😂.. you don’t want someone in your house? Call me I’ll tell them to leave.

It wasn’t until I was in my 20s I got this voice, I used to be that quiet girl who would just take what you said and go cry about it… I’m still an emotional person but I’m not gonna take your shit.

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea because I’ll block you in a heart beat… I’m at a point where I just don’t feel like putting up with unnecessary drama..

I can be your Bestfriend, but I can also be your worst enemy the choice is yours… I learned not to belittle myself to make others happy. Put your energy into people who appreciate you. Don’t keep giving if that other person is only taking.

I’m myself I don’t care if you don’t like me. It used to hurt my feelings with people just stopped talking to me for no reason, when I didn’t get invited on trips, when I didn’t get invited to the party.. guess what? The party is better at the Yates or Crowe residence..

It took me a long time to become this person, It took me a long time to realize that I wasn’t always going to be included in the things I would love to be included in. That I’m not everyone’s favorite person. That some people aren’t going to like me because of my past. It took me a long time to realize that you can forgive people for not saying sorry. It’s taken me a long time to realize a lot of people aren’t like me. I’m not the biggest fan of summer but I hate the winter. I like waking up on Sunday mornings and laying in bed until I have to get up & do last minute things. I like going for drives by myself. I enjoy the weirder things in life. I’m not the person you call at 4 a.m. & expect to get an answer from. At this point in my life, sometimes, I’d rather be by myself than with a whole bunch of people. I’m not the girl you call to go on a run with but I am the girl you call if you need a beer & to vent.

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea because I don’t want to be.. it’s 2021, stand up for yourself, speak your truth, be who YOU wanna be, quit putting on that show to please everyone, because trust me.. it’s exhausting. Be who you were made to be! If you have to drop those toxic friends, quit talking to those toxic family members. Do what you gotta do to make YOU happy. Stop caring what others think! Take a little time to figure out who you wanna be, if others don’t support that person screw them.

Stop getting upset when you don’t get invited to things, if those people wanted your company they would have shown it a long time ago… forget about them! I know it’s easier said than done.

I’m not everyone’s cup of tea, but guess what? It doesn’t bother me anymore. The people that matter, my favorite people? I’m there cup of tea. Unless, you can’t drink tea.. then I’ll be your glass of wine or something 🤣.